Sunday, October 16, 2011

our last week together

So my wife is leaving next Monday for boot camp. Our last full day together will be Saturday.

Writing that was hard. I'm going to miss her tremendously but I know it's for the better.

As for the details. She will be going up to Boston on Sunday afternoon for some last tests and things and on Monday morning I'll get to see her sworn in and shipped out to boot camp. After 2 months of boot camp I'll be there for her graduation and get to see her off to California for 6 months of training/schooling. It's still up in the air whether or not I get to move out there with her, but I think it would be better financially for me to stay here. As hard as that will be, we need my income to keep us stable and trying to find a decent paying job for <6 months would be near impossible.

We have found out from a few people in her field that the main bases are in Florida, Texas, California and, Hawaii. If you have been reading my blog, you know how absolutely amazing it would be for us to be stationed in Hawaii. And one person she talked to recently said most of the people in her field are stationed in Hawaii so fingers crossed!

Now for what I'll be doing for about 8 months...I have no idea. My wife is away this weekend and I'm just sitting around wondering what I should do so multiply that by 80 and you get how long I'll be sitting around wondering what I should do. I will definitely be more active in the local ABDL scene and will be trying harder to actually meet up with people outside the munches, so that's a start.

When my wife first moved in with me, about 6 years ago, all I had in my fridge was frozen pizza, hot dogs, ketchup and beer, so I expect to be in a similar situation in the near future. As much as I want to cook for myself and make a good dinner, it took me 45 minutes to wash dishes yesterday so I don't want to have to do that again.

I also fully expect to go through a ton of diapers! Whenever my wife goes away for a day or two I already diaper up asap so with her gone for months I'm sure I'll be diapered for a good portion of time; I'm already on my 3rd diaper since I got home from work yesterday :)

I want to end this post by saying thank you to all of my online friends. I am closer to some of you than I am to people in real life. Unfortunately as time passed all my real life friends moved on or away so my twitter buddies have been invaluable to me. I wish you all the best and as hard as the future may seem, I'm looking forward to the adventure!


  1. Hi there. I really appreciate your blog. I recently came out to my partner about my DL and he is taking it pretty hard. I might have him read your blog. Hearing how your wife has handled things is very helpful. I might email you directly to introduce myself later. Keep up the great blog entries. BTW, I did read your story on a site about Jimmy/Stephanie. Good story, although it seemed to end very abruptly. -J

  2. First off, thank you very much for your comment! I'm sorry to hear your partner isn't taking the DL thing well, if you need someone to talk to I'm all ears. The best thing you can do is be 100% honest with them from now on. The biggest hurtle my wife had to overcome was trusting me again. I essentially lied to her for years and that's not something that will just fix itself over night.

    As for the story. You are actually the first person to mention that to me and I’m a bit surprised it took this long. To tell you the truth, I really enjoyed writing The Closet Life and I wish I could have finished it but as the comments and page views dwindled I felt interest in the 34 chapter story had come to an end. I actually have a couple more chapters written/outlined and 3 more stories started, 2 of them existing in the same universe, that I planned on posting but never had the time. For a long time I have been considering a regular column where I’ll post The Closet Life and maybe my other stories too on a regular basis. I would like to get lost in the world of Jim and Stephanie again and finally complete the story.

    I would like to talk with you if you are comfortable doing so. Shoot me an email sometime.