So my wife is leaving next Monday for boot camp. Our last full day together will be Saturday.
Writing that was hard. I'm going to miss her tremendously but I know it's for the better.
As for the details. She will be going up to Boston on Sunday afternoon for some last tests and things and on Monday morning I'll get to see her sworn in and shipped out to boot camp. After 2 months of boot camp I'll be there for her graduation and get to see her off to California for 6 months of training/schooling. It's still up in the air whether or not I get to move out there with her, but I think it would be better financially for me to stay here. As hard as that will be, we need my income to keep us stable and trying to find a decent paying job for <6 months would be near impossible.
We have found out from a few people in her field that the main bases are in Florida, Texas, California and, Hawaii. If you have been reading my blog, you know how absolutely amazing it would be for us to be stationed in Hawaii. And one person she talked to recently said most of the people in her field are stationed in Hawaii so fingers crossed!
Now for what I'll be doing for about 8 months...I have no idea. My wife is away this weekend and I'm just sitting around wondering what I should do so multiply that by 80 and you get how long I'll be sitting around wondering what I should do. I will definitely be more active in the local ABDL scene and will be trying harder to actually meet up with people outside the munches, so that's a start.
When my wife first moved in with me, about 6 years ago, all I had in my fridge was frozen pizza, hot dogs, ketchup and beer, so I expect to be in a similar situation in the near future. As much as I want to cook for myself and make a good dinner, it took me 45 minutes to wash dishes yesterday so I don't want to have to do that again.
I also fully expect to go through a ton of diapers! Whenever my wife goes away for a day or two I already diaper up asap so with her gone for months I'm sure I'll be diapered for a good portion of time; I'm already on my 3rd diaper since I got home from work yesterday :)
I want to end this post by saying thank you to all of my online friends. I am closer to some of you than I am to people in real life. Unfortunately as time passed all my real life friends moved on or away so my twitter buddies have been invaluable to me. I wish you all the best and as hard as the future may seem, I'm looking forward to the adventure!