Wednesday, November 16, 2011

thanksgiving week

So I got word that I have the week of Thanksgiving off! For some people this might be a bad thing considering I'll only get 16 hours of work and 8 hours of holiday pay but, more importantly, it means I'll be driving down to Washington DC to spend the week with a very good friend of mine who happened to be the best man at our wedding. I'm super excited! I can't promise a weekly update but I'll try my best.

I am also trying to meet up with an ABDL friend of mine from the area which leads me to a difficult decision. Do I or do I not tell my best friend of my DL side...? I don't have an answer. I'll need an answer in a few days though.

Ever since I first met him we just had this connection. He was a friend of a friend at the time but we quickly started hanging out by ourselves. Later he came out of the closet to me years before he wanted anyone else to know. I kept his secret faithfully and I know he would keep mine too. Of course I don't know 100% but as long as it doesn't freak him out, since this isn't exactly mainstream, it shouldn't come between us. This is a big decision though.

Forever this has been a very personal thing for me. Telling my wife was hard for many reasons but one of them was because I was letting someone into my little bubble I had kept to myself for what had been 15 years at the time. Now letting another person in would be difficult.

Do you guys have any suggestions? I'm really on the fence about this one. It would be easier emotionally to just lie to him than "come out" but it wouldn't right...

1 comment:

  1. Since this individual is your best friend I would think you could tell that individual. What are friends for anyway? Once it is out you will know for certain whether or not this individual is you best friend.